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James G. Drayton

January 17, 1940 - January 21, 2021
Visitation
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Tuesday 1/26, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Tuesday 1/26, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Due to the current New York State restrictions in place, the funeral home has a limited capacity of 33% for visitors.  Please be aware that if the family has reached visitor capacity, family & friends who wish to visit may be requested to wait until the chapel has space to accommodate more visitors.

Service
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Tuesday 1/26, 8:00 pm

The religious service will be available via this Zoom link:

https://us05web.zoom.us/j/7396214517?pwd=aU5sOERVNmdOUGZpUGpIalZQVUNFZz09

Cemetery
A private cremation is scheduled.
Wednesday 1/27
Memorial

In lieu of flowers, the family of James G. Drayton would appreciate donations made to Veterans Association of America, Inc.

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James G. Drayton, age 81 of Massapequa Park passed away January 21, 2021 due to complications of Covid. Survived by his loving wife Eleanor Anne Drayton (nee Haley) of 55 years. Loving father of Charles G. Drayton, II (Ingrid Drayton), Heather Anne Renna (Jude C. Renna) and Christine Anne Moser (Kevin Moser).  Adored grandfather ofContinue Reading

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Heather Drayton-Renna left a message on January 27, 2021:
In memory of James G. Drayton, Heather Drayton-Renna lit a candle
Robert Lindholm left a message on January 26, 2021:
To Eleanor and family Barbara and met Jim teaching a basic boating class 30 years ago for the Jones Beach Power Squardon. Since then Jim was a friend, instructor and mentor to education department at JBPS. For that I will always cherish the many boating memories, classes and stories. May his boat always float upright and his compass course be magnetic (TVMDC)
Michael & Michele Dong left a message on January 26, 2021:
Charlie & Drayton family... our sincere condolences from the Dong family.
Bob Holub left a message on January 26, 2021:
May he rest in peace, Thank you for being you! You did well!
Sandra Messner left a message on January 26, 2021:
Charlie and family, I am so sorry about about your Dad. He was such a nice man and I know how heart wrenching this is. Please accept my deepest condolences and convey them to your Mom and sisters. Hugs. - Sandra and Jim
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Karin M Liiv left a message on January 26, 2021:
So sorry to hear of Jimmy's passing. My deepest condolences to the Drayton family.
Dr. Daniel J Carluccio left a message on January 26, 2021:
Just wanted to share our heart and thoughts with you all at this time. As you know I have nothing but fond memeories for a guy that was full of gumtion, savy, humor and intelligent ascorbic wit when needed-I know how much all of you will miss him. Sounds like he was the best Dad ever-and I know he was a loving husband. Sweet hugs to your Mom. Peace be with you at this time.
Dr. Daniel J Carluccio left a message on January 26, 2021:
Just wanted to share our heart and thoughts with you all at this time. As you know I have nothing but fond memeories for a guy that was full of gumtion, savy, humor and intelligent ascorbic wit when needed-I know how much all of you will miss him. Sounds like he was the best Dad ever-and I know he was a loving husband. Sweet hugs to your Mom. Peace be with you at this time.
Lou & Pat DiPadova left a message on January 26, 2021:
Jim was a great neighbor & will be truly missed. Our deepest condolences, he will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Marie DiGuiseppi left a message on January 26, 2021:
My deepest condolences on your loss. You are all in my heart thoughts and prayers. Xo
Grace & Ken Hatton left a message on January 26, 2021:
Dear Eleanor and Family, Jim was fun to be with and we certainly enjoyed our Sunday night dinners at the Club. Please know that you all will be in our thoughts and prayers. Grace & Ken Hatton
Grace & Ken Hatton left a message on January 26, 2021:
Dear Eleanor and Family, Jim was fun to be with and we certainly enjoyed our Sunday night dinners at the Club. Please know that you all will be in our thoughts and prayers. Grace & Ken Hatton
Jim Mackey left a message on January 26, 2021:
I am very sorry to hear about Jim's passing. I enjoyed having him for a neighbor. Even though our relationship was limited to brief conversations outside our homes, it was easily apparent during those chats what a good guy Jim was - my thoughts are with his family.
Brian Diffendale left a message on January 26, 2021:
I am so sorry to hear about losing Jim. Truly a great man. I met Jim through our business interactions at Henegan Construction. He was always fair and honest (and a pretty good golfer too). My fondest memory happened in Massapequa, where I too live. I ran into Jim several years ago at the King Kullen as I briskly made my way to the check out lane with a box of diapers in one arm and a 12-pack in the other. Jim slowed me down, said hello, and told me to enjoy these times, as he smiled ear to ear. Slowing down is hard to do sometimes, but I try to heed Jim's advice as often as possible. God bless you Jim. Thanks for advice.
Mary & Al Lyons left a message on January 26, 2021:
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal. May Jim's love guide you and heal your broken hearts. RIP, sweet Jimbo
Chris Barbaro left a message on January 25, 2021:
Charlie, I was saddened to hear of the passing of you dad and wanted to offer all my prayers and condolences to you and your family. May you find some kind of peace in the special memories that families and dear friends share ... yours - chris
Arlene Malavet left a message on January 25, 2021:
My most deepest and sincere condolences to Drayton family and friends on this great loss. Mr. Drayton was a wonderful and kind man; always having such a joy about him. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all during this difficult time. May Jim rest among the Heavenly Angels!! God grant you all comfort, strength and peace!
Nick DiStefano left a message on January 25, 2021:
Charlie, My condolences to you and your family.
Madeline Lavender and Bruce Klein left a message on January 25, 2021:
We were so sorry to hear of your loss, our sympathy to all loved ones
Ivor Anthony and Verona Hall and Family left a message on January 25, 2021:
Charlie; My condolences to the Drayton Family on the loss of a wonderful man, husband and father. My Family and I will keep your family in our prayers. Anthony
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Ingrid left a message on January 25, 2021:
James, words can not describe you properly. You were a fair & honest boss, a kind & caring friend & the world’s best father in law. You introduced me to the love of my life, your son Charles & we have the love & pride of our life, our son James. Thank you, you will be forever missed. RIP, Ingrid
Joseph & Donna Sciortino left a message on January 24, 2021:
So very sorry for your loss. You and you family are in our thoughts and prayer. May Jim Rest In Peace always.
Carol and David Bruce left a message on January 24, 2021:
Eleanor and family– I am saddened by the news about the death of Jim. I will always remember that Jim was kind, caring, and didn’t hesitate to offer a helping hand to me as I have served on our condo association board. He also was a fun neighbor and will be sorely missed. David and I are wishing you peace and comfort during this hard time. Carol Bruce, Sandalfoot 1D3 and 2D3
FRANK AND SHEILA OTTE left a message on January 24, 2021:
We are so sorry for your loss. (5D2, 5D3, 2C1, 1A2)
Mr. and Mrs. Joseph O'Leary left a message on January 24, 2021:
In memory of James G. Drayton, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph O'Leary lit a candle
Geri Cardoza Rob Ward left a message on January 24, 2021:
In memory of James G. Drayton, Geri Cardoza Rob Ward lit a candle
Diane Salerno left a message on January 24, 2021:
So sorry for your loss. As a Southgate resident, I appreciated all of Jim’s expertise with our budget as a Board Member .
Frank Pravato left a message on January 24, 2021:
We had some great times boating together
Berry Rivhards left a message on January 24, 2021:
Sincere condolences over your great loss Berry Richards, Sandalfoot 1B2
Berry Rivhards left a message on January 24, 2021:
Sincere condolences over your great loss Berry Richards, Sandalfoot 1B2
Berry Rivhards left a message on January 24, 2021:
Sincere condolences over your great loss Berry Richards, Sandalfoot 1B2
Ellen Bartolemea left a message on January 24, 2021:
My deepest sympathies go out to the family of this one- of- a- kind man who will truly be missed by all the lives he's touched. Although no one can replace him, his memory will live on...in all of us. Rest in peace. May God be with you.
Ellen Bartolemea left a message on January 24, 2021:
My deepest sympathies go out to the family of this one- of- a- kind man who will truly be missed by all the lives he's touched. Although no one can replace him, his memory will live on...in all of us. Rest in peace. May God be with you.
Laura R Benedetto left a message on January 24, 2021:
Offering my deepest condolences. Thank you. Laura
phyllis Smith left a message on January 24, 2021:
Oh, I am so very sorry to hear this news. He was a very wonderful neighbor to myself and Marty. Eleanor, I hope you are okay. So sorry for you.
Helen Gould left a message on January 24, 2021:
I am so saddened to have learned of Jim's passing. He will be very missed. My condolences to Eleanor and the family.
Rhoda and Ron nadell left a message on January 24, 2021:
Our condolences to his family. He will be missed
Patricia Boland left a message on January 24, 2021:
Dearest Eleanor and family, my deepest condolences on Jim's passing. He and Don shared many special moments joking with each other and fixing broken toys for Nicholas. We will all miss him terribly he was a terrific guy. He'll be walking Skippy in heaven now.
Tina Schiaffino left a message on January 24, 2021:
You will be so missed. I'm thankful for the time we had...
Capt. David J. Mahler left a message on January 24, 2021:
We are so sorry to hear this, Jim was the most wonderful, knowledgeable, funny, sweet helpful guy. A total pleasure to hang out with and a truly dedicated USCG Aux shipmate, and instructor. He will forever be missed by so many lives that he touched. Rest easy my friend, thinking of all the good times!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bruce & Sue Rank left a message on January 24, 2021:
Dear Eleanor & Family, We are so saddened to learn of Jim's passing. What a good person and such a wonderful friend. We met at Sandalfoot on Sanibel several years ago and spent many hours together at poolside and dining in Sanibel's finest restaurants. We talked with Jim & Eleanor often via phone and enjoyed those moments "together". Our thoughts and prayers are for you, Eleanor, and your family. We send our love your way. - Bruce & Sue Rank in Kalamazoo, MI
Patrice Rachlin left a message on January 24, 2021:
So sorry ?
Rachel Ziff left a message on January 24, 2021:
To Christine and her family, my heart is with you.
John Castronovo left a message on January 23, 2021:
Hello Jim, I know you can see and hear me. Your life has just begun. Always looked foward to seeing you. Your company and our conversations which transpired between us were greatly enjoyed and will never be forgotten. You were one of the most rare real man I ever met. You accomplished so much and all of it was so great. You can now do anything your heart desires. You will always be in my heart just as you always were. God bless you as the Angels in Heaven rejoice your coming home. In my prayers you will always be. Were only here for a short time which results it us being together forever. Till we meet again, from fishermen to fishermen, love you always your friend, John Castronovo
Bette S Samuel left a message on January 23, 2021:
My sincere condolences to the Drayton family. This is a sad loss for all of us. A wonderful man.
Bette Samuel left a message on January 23, 2021:
Jim was one of the kindest, gentlest man in the entire world. He will be sorely missed.
Sandra alarcon left a message on January 23, 2021:
Mrs Eleanor and Charlie Heather and Christine old grandkids I am sorry for you lost you have the best husband and father and Granpa in for me is my beautiful Men I never see Thanks ? for you do for Me I Never forget you now is you time you fly and peace ???
Patricia Knaack left a message on January 23, 2021:
Charlie, Ingred & James My deepest condolences to you and your family. May your Dad Rest In Peace. Lots of great fishermen up in heaven.
Mary and Doug Renna left a message on January 23, 2021:
A kind and gentle man that has been our joy and pleasure to know. Rest In Peace sweet James.
David Wenger left a message on January 23, 2021:
My heartfelt condolences to Mrs. Drayton, Charlie, Heather, Chrissy and the rest of the family during this difficult time. I have very fond memories of Mr Drayton for the time I kew him. From showing me how to grow roses, sharing his wine and welcoming me into his home. I will never forget his generosity and kind manner. He will be in my thoughts and prayers. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam
David Wenger left a message on January 23, 2021:
My heartfelt condolences to Mrs. Drayton, Charlie, Heather, Chrissy and the rest of the family during this difficult time. I have very fond memories of Mr Drayton for the time I kew him. From showing me how to grow roses, sharing his wine and welcoming me into his home. I will never forget his generosity and kind manner. He will be in my thoughts and prayers. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam
Deborah Beck/Dave Motti left a message on January 23, 2021:
We are so sorry for your loss sending prayers and hugs to you and your family
Deborah Beck/Dave Motti left a message on January 23, 2021:
We are so sorry for your loss sending prayers and hugs to you and your family
condolence-image Massapequa Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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