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Matthew P. Elder

February 10, 1991 - April 8, 2021
Visitation
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Monday 4/12, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Monday 4/12, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Due to the current New York State restrictions in place, the funeral home has a limited capacity of 50% for visitors.  Please be aware that if the family has reached visitor capacity, family & friends who wish to visit may be requested to wait until the chapel has space to accommodate more visitors. Masks must be worn inside the funeral home.

Cemetery
St. Charles Cemetery
2015 Wellwood Ave
Farmingdale, NY 11735
(631) 249-8700 | Map
Tuesday 4/13
Mass
St. Rose of Lima R.C. Church
2 Bayview Ave.
Massapequa, New York 11758
516-798-4992 | Map
Tuesday 4/13, 10:15 am

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Joan left a message on September 21, 2023:
I would like the family to know that I pray for Matthew everyday. His passing has truly affected me. I did not know Matthew or his family. I pray at the Padre Pio statue at St. Rose of Lima for your beloved Matthew. Peace to all of his family and loved ones.
Joan left a message on September 21, 2023:
I would like the family to know that I pray for Matthew everyday. His passing has truly affected me. I did not know Matthew or his family. I pray at the Padre Pio statue at St. Rose of Lima for your beloved Matthew. Peace to all of his family and loved ones.
Maureen McCarthy left a message on April 14, 2021:
Dear Clare & Family <3 Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you all . Our heartfelt condolences The McCarthy Family
Joan left a message on April 13, 2021:
So sad to hear about Matt & his beloved dog. Thoughts & prayers to his entire Family.
Lena left a message on April 13, 2021:
My condolences to your family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lena left a message on April 13, 2021:
My condolences to your family.
Lena left a message on April 13, 2021:
My condolences to your family.
Lena left a message on April 13, 2021:
My condolences to your family.
William Kyriakidis and family left a message on April 13, 2021:
Mr. Elder and family, our heartfelt condolences. Prayers for strength and healing.
Daniel Raabe left a message on April 13, 2021:
Rest in peace Matt. Condolences to Matt's wonderful family and all who loved him.
Catherine Burke left a message on April 12, 2021:
In memory of Matthew P. Elder, Catherine Burke lit a candle
Jimmy Petrich left a message on April 12, 2021:
I remember Matt when I was a coach for the Majorie Post Swim Team. I’m so sorry and wish the family comfort and warmth during this time.
Gina Montefusco left a message on April 12, 2021:
So very sorry for the loss of Mathew. God will watch over him and keep him safe ???
Liz Henry left a message on April 12, 2021:
My condolences and sympathy to the Family of Matthew. Liz Henry
Susan and Sal Mignano left a message on April 12, 2021:
Dear Claire, Bob and Christopher, Words cannot express our sadness for you all on your loss of Matthew. We are thinking of, and praying for you. With love, Sue and Sal
Bill and Irene Henry left a message on April 12, 2021:
Our deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your Family of your beloved son, Matthew. Matthew will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Bill and Irene Henry
Anne Marchhart left a message on April 12, 2021:
Dear Claire and family. I am so truly sorry to hear of Matthews passing. My prayers will be with you to keep you strong. Sincerely Anne Marchhart
Dana Canale left a message on April 12, 2021:
Matt was one of the sweetest, most thoughtful guys I ever knew. We sadly lost touch the last couple of years, but the memories I have with Matt remain dear to me: hanging out during various lunch periods, after-school clubs, prom, post-high school gatherings, etc...he was so much fun to talk to. Those bittersweet memories will remain in my heart for as long as I live. Rest easy, my friend.
Camille Byrne left a message on April 12, 2021:
Claire, Bob and Chris: Deepest sympathy and condolences. The Byrne Family
Michele Jong left a message on April 12, 2021:
Clare, Bob & Chris, my family's hearts are hurting for you and your family. Matt and Alex were good friends. They spent many happy times together over the years as they were growing up. We are so sorry to learn of Matt's passing and send our deepest sympathy and condolences to you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
kim themistocleous left a message on April 12, 2021:
May you find comfort in your loving memories and each other.
Jennifer Barragato left a message on April 11, 2021:
Clare my deepest and most sincere condolences to you and your family. My heart is aching for all of you.Matt was,such a sweet and handsome young man. Anytjing you need I am here for you.
Ann Sylvan left a message on April 11, 2021:
So sorry to hear about Matt. He was such a nice person. He is in our thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace. The Sylvan Family
The Wood Family left a message on April 11, 2021:
Bob,Claire & Chris, Our deepest sympathies to you all. We are shocked and saddened by this terrible loss. Our love and prayers are with your family ??❤️ The Wood Family
Lisa Barbieri left a message on April 11, 2021:
In loving memory of Matthew Elder.
Jessica Kranis left a message on April 11, 2021:
We were so sad to hear about Matthew. We shared so many stories of our children for so many years. My heart breaks for your loss. We will pray for all of you. Love, The Kranis Family
Susan M Miller left a message on April 11, 2021:
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can still see Matthew sitting in my class but back then he was blonde, What a handsome man.
Camille Byrne left a message on April 11, 2021:
Sending prayers to the Elder family. Jonathan and Sean were friends with Matt and Chris growing up at Fairfield and our hearts are broken for this tragic and untimely loss of a wonderful young man. With sympathy and condolences ?? The Byrne Family
Susan Katzenoff left a message on April 11, 2021:
Our heart aches hearing about Matthew. We are Extending our deepest heartfelt sympathy to you all. There are no words to express or ease the pain of what you are going through. The love and joy that Matthew brought to everyone who knew him will always be remembered and cherished. We are thinking of you during this time and are here to support you in any way we can. With our love and prayers, The Katzenoff Family
Susan Katzenoff left a message on April 11, 2021:
Our heart aches hearing about Matthew. We are Extending our deepest heartfelt sympathy to you all. There are no words to express or ease the pain of what you are going through. The love and joy that Matthew brought to everyone who knew him will always be remembered and cherished. We are thinking of you during this time and are here to support you in any way we can. With our love and prayers, The Katzenoff Family
Kate Zizza-Donofrio left a message on April 10, 2021:
God bless Matthew
Matt Seabold left a message on April 10, 2021:
Bobby, all our love to you, Clare, Chris, and the rest of the family Matt was a good, decent man taken much too soon. Our sincerest condolences.
Kate Zizza-Donofrio left a message on April 10, 2021:
Dear Clare and Elder family I am so sorry to hear the news of the passing of Matthew. I can’t imagine this great loss for you and your family. I remember when Matthew worked in our office, so sweet. Heaven has gained a very sweet angel. I am sending prayers of peace and comfort to you and your family. Anything that you need we are all here for you. God bless you all and rest in peace Matthew.
Colleen Bassetta left a message on April 10, 2021:
In memory of Matthew P. Elder, Colleen Bassetta lit a candle
Jim Storck left a message on April 10, 2021:
My best friend Peggy called me Matthew’s Aunt she was devastated I’m So sorry for the loss of your dear son Matthew my prayers and condolences to you Bobby & Claire and family . Jim Storck Port St Lucie Fl
Barbara Burke left a message on April 10, 2021:
We are so heartbroken over the loss of Matt. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers constantly. May God watch over all of you. Love Aunt Barbara
Tom & Kathie LaBombard left a message on April 10, 2021:
Bobby, Clare, and Chris, love you so much! I can picture Bob's big smile and warm hug for Matt. Let the thought of your dad give you some comfort as he always gave me when I saw him and Janet. Wish we could be with you in person.
Tom & Kathie LaBombard left a message on April 10, 2021:
Bobby, Clare, and Chris, love you so much! I can picture Bob's big smile and warm hug for Matt. Let the thought of your dad give you some comfort as he always gave me when I saw him and Janet. Wish we could be with you in person.
Carol Zelonis left a message on April 9, 2021:
Rest in eternal peace Matthew
Carol Zelonis (Root) left a message on April 9, 2021:
Clare, Bob & Chris Sending you our deepest and most heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved son & brother Matt. You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Love Carol, Dave, Emily & Mackenzie
condolence-image Massapequa Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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