Paul Tursi

January 7, 1947 - April 26, 2023

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Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel

4980 Merrick Road

Massapequa Park, NY 11762

516-882-8200 |

Tuesday 5/2, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel

4980 Merrick Road

Massapequa Park, NY 11762

516-882-8200 |

Tuesday 5/2, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to:

Esophageal Cancer Action Network

https://ecan.org/

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A private cremation is scheduled.

Wednesday 5/3

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St. William the Abbot R.C. Church

2000 Jackson Ave.

Seaford, New York 11783

516-785-1266 |

Wednesday 5/3, 9:30 am

Paul was born in Queens and raised in Massapequa, leaving Long Island to attend college at the University of Dayton. He returned home after college and a year later met Kathy while they both taught at Cure of Ars in Merrick. They lived in Rockville Center for a time, before settling down in Massapequa to raise their children. Paul switched careers after the kids were born and worked in sales until he retired in 2016. At home, he was quiet and gentle, but in public he could strike up a conversation with anyone he encountered and connect on their level. Paul always put others before himself. He was a dedicated family man and worked tirelessly to provide for and support us all. A loyal Yankees and Jets fan, he was most relaxed while napping in his chair at Tobay beach. When he wasn’t doing those things, you could find him reading books on history or the military or novels by his favorite authors, working in the yard, roaming Home Depot looking for the latest and greatest tools, or playing with his grandsons. He had a wry sense of humor and found himself endlessly entertaining. His one-of-a-kind laugh could fill the room and brought so much joy to those around him.

Paul was sick for several months before being diagnosed with esophageal cancer last November. He battled for five long, hard months, encountering numerous complications along the way. He fought to the end, but his body finally succumbed to an infection he was simply too weak to fight.

Paul is survived by his wife, Kathy, daughter, Nicole, son Brian, daughter-in-law Annie, grandsons, Oliver, Arthur and Oscar, and siblings Ben, Mary Beth and Debbie and their families. He was loved immensely and will be greatly missed.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to:

Esophageal Cancer Action Network

https://ecan.org/

Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel

4980 Merrick Road

Massapequa Park, NY 11762

516-882-8200 | Map

Tuesday 5/2, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel

4980 Merrick Road

Massapequa Park, NY 11762

516-882-8200 | Map

Tuesday 5/2, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to:

Esophageal Cancer Action Network

https://ecan.org/

A private cremation is scheduled.

Wednesday 5/3

St. William the Abbot R.C. Church

2000 Jackson Ave.

Seaford, New York 11783

516-785-1266 | Map

Wednesday 5/3, 9:30 am

Paul Tursi, our loving and beloved husband, father, grandfather and brother, passed away peacefully on April 26th surrounded by his wife, Kathy, daughter, Nicole, son, Brian, and daughter-in-law, Annie. Paul was born in Queens and raised in Massapequa, leaving Long Island to attend college at the University of Dayton. He returned home after college andContinue Reading

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I remember Paul from University of Dayton days. He was on my floor at Stuart Hall freshman year. R.I.P. Paul.

Tursi family: I’m John Condit, University of Dayton, Class of 1969. I knew Paul when we were dorm mates freshman year, 1965. While I remember Paul fondly, it’s been many years since I’ve thought about that time we were students together. Today, out of the blue, Paul came into to mind. Since I was thinking about him, I looked him up on Google, finding his obituary. I sending along my sincere condolences, though a year late. I’m so sorry I was too late to make contact and share our life stories with each other. John Condit Pinehurst, NC
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I met Paul in school he was a few years older But he was impeccably dressed funny how you remember things, but I never forgot he was like a trendsetter. May he rest in peace?✝️?

Kathy and family I am so shocked in hearing that Paul has passed away. I know what this is like losing someone that has passed who was not only a husband, father, grandfather and best person to count on for just about everything. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Dear Kathy, Brian, Nicole and family- With deepest sympathy, so vey sorry to hear about Paul. We worked together for 8 years, up until his retirement. He was so Proud of all of you and frequently shared stories during our many lunches together. This particular one, was when we celebrated his birthday at Benihana.......
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Dear Kathy, We met your beautiful family @ Ray Barton’s place in Scottsdale. We liked you all right away❣️ We are so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. May the love of friends & family & your fond memories of Paul bring you comfort❣️ Sincerely, Dan & Sandy Hilliker

Sending prayers and love to the Tursi Family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

My sincere condolences. i love all the Tursi family & my heart aches for each of you. Paul is gone but never forgotten, always in our hearts. Happy family time memories cherished.

To: Kathy, Brian/Annie, Niki MB/Ed,Deb-Joe, Ben: What a kind, thoughtful,& loving soul Paul was. I along with so many others feel so blessed to have known Paul. He, Kathy and all the family were always so kind and loving at any of the family get togethers. I too will always remember Paul’s contagious laugh. I will forever cherish being a part of your family over the years. Peace, love, blessings, & continued prayers. Love Always, Monica

Cousin, you will be missed by all who loved you. Our hearts are with your family during this difficult time. - Annamae & Joseph

Thinking of Paul and his family. Peace, Prayers and Blessings,

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To Ben, Mary Beth, Debbie - sorry to hear about the loss of your brother Paul. To Kathy, Nicole and Brian I am sorry for the loss of a husband and father . A memory for me was of our older cousin, Paul, to play with at our family holiday gatherings, and then helping navigate my first real job at Sunrise Lumber.

Paul will remain in our hearts forever. A great man & loving cousin. Heaven gained an angel. Sent with love & deepest condolences, Suann & Amy Sue

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A wonderful tribute to a wonderful guy. Love from your “brother “ Ed

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.