Thomas E. DeSousa December 19, 1944 ~ July 11, 2024 Thomas DeSousa “Tommy” aged 79, a beloved husband, father, brother, grandfather and friend departed our world on July 11, 2024 surrounded by his wife, children and grandchildren leaving behind a legacy that will be cherished by all who knew him. Born to Filomena and HermanContinue Reading
Thomas E. DeSousa
December 19, 1944 ~ July 11, 2024
Thomas DeSousa “Tommy” aged 79, a beloved husband, father, brother, grandfather and friend departed our world on July 11, 2024 surrounded by his wife, children and grandchildren leaving behind a legacy that will be cherished by all who knew him.
Born to Filomena and Herman DeSousa on December 19, 1944 in Harlem NY. Tommy married Diane Bestafka in March of 1966. Together they created a beautiful family of five children. Donna, Frank, Anthony, Thomas, and Michael.
Known for his eloquence and ability to captivate any audience, Tommy held court wherever he went, leaving an indelible mark on all who had the pleasure of knowing him. A devoted husband, loving father, cherished brother, and doting grandfather, Tommy’s family was his greatest pride and joy. His involvement in the lives of those around him was profound, and he left them with an endless collection of stories that will never fade away.
He found joy in playing handball, traveling to Deerfield Beach, FL in the winter, listening to music, and spending time with his friends and family.
Tommy is survived by his siblings, wife, five children, and eleven grandchildren. His love for his dogs was well-known, and his hard work and determination led to the founding of his business, Marine Bulkheading Inc., in 1981. His legacy continues through the dedication of his sons, Michael, Anthony, and Thomas, who now run the business.
He was a movie star. An institution. Larger than life, a handsome and charismatic man who loved his family fiercely.
Tommy will be deeply missed by his family and friends, but his spirit, stories, and the impact he made on their lives will live on forever.
“You’re right about that”, as he would say…
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John & Christine Piccininni
left a message on July 16, 2024:
Dear DeSousa Family, May your fathers legacy live on in all of you. With deepest sympathy and friendship, Love, The Piccininni Family
Neil Grange
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We will miss you sorely! Happy travels!
Timmy Greco
left a message on July 15, 2024:
I wish I had gotten to know Thomas, I'm looking for to meeting him on the other side.
Your friends at RAW Equipment
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Wishing you comfort, peace and hope in this time of sadness.
Crystal Alicea Desousa
left a message on July 23, 2024:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you & family xo
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Brittany OHalloran
left a message on July 16, 2024:
The DeSousa Family,My thoughts & condolences are with you all. So hard to lose such a light. I am thinking of you all and sending love. Love you
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Brittany OHalloran. Send Flowers
Bryan Appio & DryWater family
left a message on July 16, 2024:
Dear Mike and Family, Our heartfelt condolences and flowers in memory of Thomas DeSousa. You're in our thoughts and prayers. - Bryan Appio
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Bryan Appio & DryWater family. Send Flowers
Connie Monitto and Craig Shearman
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We are so sorry for your loss. Tommy truly was one of a kind. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
With Love, The Tarsio Family
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Our Deepest Condolences to the entire family
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Love, Stephanie and Mike Victor
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We will miss you forever
Florist's Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Love, Stephanie and Mike Victor. Send Flowers
Erika and Addison Sherman
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Erika and I are both heartbroken for your loss. We were fellow residents at Deerfield Beach.
We would often see Tommy on the grass as he held court as the unofficial mayor of Deerfield.
Out thoughts and prayers are with you.
J. Petrocelli Contracting, Inc.
left a message on July 15, 2024:
With our Deepest Sympathies for your loss.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Supportworks
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. We will be keeping the DeSousa Family and our friends at MBI in our thoughts and prayers.
Joyful Memory was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Supportworks. Send Flowers
Jim Latham, Charlie Edwards, and everyone at Port Lumber
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Ocean Breeze Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Jim Latham, Charlie Edwards, and everyone at Port Lumber. Send Flowers
Colon Family
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
Magnificent Life Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Colon Family. Send Flowers
Newbold family
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Red Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Newbold family. Send Flowers
Nick and Carol Argentieri
left a message on July 14, 2024:
We send our love and prayers to Diane and all the Family for this untimely loss. We remember Tommy for his graciousness, generosity, humor and magnificent smile which generated warmth and joy throughout the hearts of everyone.
Jeff & Lauren vs McWey
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Tommy was a wonderful friend who always had a smile on his face. We will greatly miss our many conversations at Orchid Beach. His positive attitude was an inspiration.
His love of his family was evident to everyone who knew him. Our deepest sympathy to Diane and his beautiful family. Tommy was so loved by everyone who knew him. May God provide comfort in this very difficult time.
Anonymous
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Our condolences to the family
Strength and Solace Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Kelly and Don Angelini
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy was a great friend to us in Deerfield Beach. We will miss his laughter, his smile and his giant heart. RIP Tommy and our deepest condolences to his entire family. He was one of a kind…so sad.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Anonymous
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Our sincerest condolences
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Ron Thompson
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tom I will miss you for the rest of my life. You were a role model that had a profound effect on me. I will never forget the opportunities you gave me that have had such a powerful impact on my life and career. You will be perpetually missed. I'll always think of and remember you.
Nicholas Cardi
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy was larger than life. He made you feel special when you saw him. He had the biggest heart in the world. I loved him as a friend and right now my heart is broken. Having him as a friend was a true blessing from God.
Brooke and Lorne Myers
left a message on July 13, 2024:
May Thomas Desousa's memory forever be a blessing and may the entire family find comfort among all the people who are mourning his loss.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Brad cirincion
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy thank you for being such a close friend and giving me such great advice in life. Thank you for being so kind and humble and introducing me to the (Rocket) electric bike. That bike literally changed my life. You gave me a new passion for life and to live every day to the fullest. I trusted you with my life. Really enjoyed your once a week visits to my restaurant in Deerfield Beach where you would only let me take care of you. Was my please every time and every time you were so over generous x10 . Thank you from the bottom of my heart. May you rest in piece now. Your Best from Deerfield Beach. We will all truly miss you forever sir. Until we meet again. I can hear your voice saying "Well said Brad well said " 🙏
Brad Cirincion .
Brian
left a message on July 13, 2024:
“Well said, well said!”
Cheers to a life well lived.
The Golder Family
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Rest in peace. You will never be forgotten.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Dianne Holdorff
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Heart Broken... he waved as he drove past me ... Just the other day.. Prays Love and beautiful memories to his Wife and Family....
Darwin Tonato
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Mi ms sentido psame para todo los familiares. De quien vida fue Thomas De Sousa. Dios le de resignacin a todo los familiares para que sigan adelante
Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Darwin Tonato. Send Flowers
Valerie and Bill Biber
left a message on July 12, 2024:
We send our heartfelt condolences and may your loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.
mark mallor
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Tom was one of a kind. Great family man, great friend and great lover of his music. Deerfield Beach, the sun and all the people he greeted with a polite hello will miss Tom DeSousa. God bless his whole family. When we speak his name, he will always put a smile on our face and we will keep him alive. We love you Tom.
maria paula
left a message on July 12, 2024:
My condolences to the whole family🙏🥲❤️
Fridman Family and Rosenblum Family
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Our thoughts are with you in this incredibly difficult time. The Fridman family and the Rosenblum family
Loving Lilies and Roses Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Fridman Family and Rosenblum Family. Send Flowers
Anonymous
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Sending my deepest condolences. Your father will always be remembered as an incredible person. I am grateful that I got to know him,and I'll miss him.
Florist's Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Anonymous
left a message on July 12, 2024:
You will be missed . Love,The Schulmans
Lavender Reflections Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Bridgehampton Equities
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lavender Reflections Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Bridgehampton Equities. Send Flowers
Dave Bloch
left a message on July 12, 2024:
The Bloch family sends condolences to the entire DeSousa family. I spent a lot of time at the DeSousa household growing up down the block and have only fond memories. Entering into the foyer, I would usually find Mr. D sound asleep getting a haircut. When he woke up he would always playfully make fun of the bandana I wore on my head. I’ll always remember him like he was the last time I saw him at the Maggie’s Mission event. He was tan, smiling, laughing and looked like he could not be happier
Rest in peace Mr. D
You will be missed
Lynn Trupiano-okeefe
left a message on July 12, 2024:
I’ll always remember the trips to the thanksgiving parades my entire childhood. We always looked forward to them. Love you uncle Tommy. You will be missed terribly by all. Sending love and strength to aunt Diane and the whole DeSousa family.
Michael DeSousa
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Lois and I are overwhelmed with grief,please take care everyone and stay safe!!!!
Massapequa Funeral Home
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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John & Christine Piccininni
left a message on July 16, 2024:
Dear DeSousa Family, May your fathers legacy live on in all of you. With deepest sympathy and friendship, Love, The Piccininni Family
Neil Grange
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We will miss you sorely! Happy travels!
Timmy Greco
left a message on July 15, 2024:
I wish I had gotten to know Thomas, I'm looking for to meeting him on the other side.
Your friends at RAW Equipment
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Wishing you comfort, peace and hope in this time of sadness.
Crystal Alicea Desousa
left a message on July 23, 2024:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you & family xo
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Brittany OHalloran
left a message on July 16, 2024:
The DeSousa Family,My thoughts & condolences are with you all. So hard to lose such a light. I am thinking of you all and sending love. Love you
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Brittany OHalloran. Send Flowers
Bryan Appio & DryWater family
left a message on July 16, 2024:
Dear Mike and Family, Our heartfelt condolences and flowers in memory of Thomas DeSousa. You're in our thoughts and prayers. - Bryan Appio
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Bryan Appio & DryWater family. Send Flowers
Connie Monitto and Craig Shearman
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We are so sorry for your loss. Tommy truly was one of a kind. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
With Love, The Tarsio Family
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Our Deepest Condolences to the entire family
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Love, Stephanie and Mike Victor
left a message on July 15, 2024:
We will miss you forever
Florist's Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Love, Stephanie and Mike Victor. Send Flowers
Erika and Addison Sherman
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Erika and I are both heartbroken for your loss. We were fellow residents at Deerfield Beach.
We would often see Tommy on the grass as he held court as the unofficial mayor of Deerfield.
Out thoughts and prayers are with you.
J. Petrocelli Contracting, Inc.
left a message on July 15, 2024:
With our Deepest Sympathies for your loss.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Supportworks
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. We will be keeping the DeSousa Family and our friends at MBI in our thoughts and prayers.
Joyful Memory was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Supportworks. Send Flowers
Jim Latham, Charlie Edwards, and everyone at Port Lumber
left a message on July 15, 2024:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Ocean Breeze Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Jim Latham, Charlie Edwards, and everyone at Port Lumber. Send Flowers
Colon Family
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
Magnificent Life Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Colon Family. Send Flowers
Newbold family
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Red Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Newbold family. Send Flowers
Nick and Carol Argentieri
left a message on July 14, 2024:
We send our love and prayers to Diane and all the Family for this untimely loss. We remember Tommy for his graciousness, generosity, humor and magnificent smile which generated warmth and joy throughout the hearts of everyone.
Jeff & Lauren vs McWey
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Tommy was a wonderful friend who always had a smile on his face. We will greatly miss our many conversations at Orchid Beach. His positive attitude was an inspiration.
His love of his family was evident to everyone who knew him. Our deepest sympathy to Diane and his beautiful family. Tommy was so loved by everyone who knew him. May God provide comfort in this very difficult time.
Anonymous
left a message on July 14, 2024:
Our condolences to the family
Strength and Solace Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Kelly and Don Angelini
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy was a great friend to us in Deerfield Beach. We will miss his laughter, his smile and his giant heart. RIP Tommy and our deepest condolences to his entire family. He was one of a kind…so sad.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Anonymous
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Our sincerest condolences
White Florist's Choice was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Ron Thompson
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tom I will miss you for the rest of my life. You were a role model that had a profound effect on me. I will never forget the opportunities you gave me that have had such a powerful impact on my life and career. You will be perpetually missed. I'll always think of and remember you.
Nicholas Cardi
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy was larger than life. He made you feel special when you saw him. He had the biggest heart in the world. I loved him as a friend and right now my heart is broken. Having him as a friend was a true blessing from God.
Brooke and Lorne Myers
left a message on July 13, 2024:
May Thomas Desousa's memory forever be a blessing and may the entire family find comfort among all the people who are mourning his loss.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Brad cirincion
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Tommy thank you for being such a close friend and giving me such great advice in life. Thank you for being so kind and humble and introducing me to the (Rocket) electric bike. That bike literally changed my life. You gave me a new passion for life and to live every day to the fullest. I trusted you with my life. Really enjoyed your once a week visits to my restaurant in Deerfield Beach where you would only let me take care of you. Was my please every time and every time you were so over generous x10 . Thank you from the bottom of my heart. May you rest in piece now. Your Best from Deerfield Beach. We will all truly miss you forever sir. Until we meet again. I can hear your voice saying "Well said Brad well said " 🙏
Brad Cirincion .
Brian
left a message on July 13, 2024:
“Well said, well said!”
Cheers to a life well lived.
The Golder Family
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Rest in peace. You will never be forgotten.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Thomas DeSousa . Plant a Tree
Dianne Holdorff
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Heart Broken... he waved as he drove past me ... Just the other day.. Prays Love and beautiful memories to his Wife and Family....
Darwin Tonato
left a message on July 13, 2024:
Mi ms sentido psame para todo los familiares. De quien vida fue Thomas De Sousa. Dios le de resignacin a todo los familiares para que sigan adelante
Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Darwin Tonato. Send Flowers
Valerie and Bill Biber
left a message on July 12, 2024:
We send our heartfelt condolences and may your loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.
mark mallor
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Tom was one of a kind. Great family man, great friend and great lover of his music. Deerfield Beach, the sun and all the people he greeted with a polite hello will miss Tom DeSousa. God bless his whole family. When we speak his name, he will always put a smile on our face and we will keep him alive. We love you Tom.
maria paula
left a message on July 12, 2024:
My condolences to the whole family🙏🥲❤️
Fridman Family and Rosenblum Family
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Our thoughts are with you in this incredibly difficult time. The Fridman family and the Rosenblum family
Loving Lilies and Roses Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Fridman Family and Rosenblum Family. Send Flowers
Anonymous
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Sending my deepest condolences. Your father will always be remembered as an incredible person. I am grateful that I got to know him,and I'll miss him.
Florist's Choice Bouquet was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Anonymous
left a message on July 12, 2024:
You will be missed . Love,The Schulmans
Lavender Reflections Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Bridgehampton Equities
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lavender Reflections Spray was purchased for the family of Thomas DeSousa by Bridgehampton Equities. Send Flowers
Dave Bloch
left a message on July 12, 2024:
The Bloch family sends condolences to the entire DeSousa family. I spent a lot of time at the DeSousa household growing up down the block and have only fond memories. Entering into the foyer, I would usually find Mr. D sound asleep getting a haircut. When he woke up he would always playfully make fun of the bandana I wore on my head. I’ll always remember him like he was the last time I saw him at the Maggie’s Mission event. He was tan, smiling, laughing and looked like he could not be happier
Rest in peace Mr. D
You will be missed
Lynn Trupiano-okeefe
left a message on July 12, 2024:
I’ll always remember the trips to the thanksgiving parades my entire childhood. We always looked forward to them. Love you uncle Tommy. You will be missed terribly by all. Sending love and strength to aunt Diane and the whole DeSousa family.
Michael DeSousa
left a message on July 12, 2024:
Lois and I are overwhelmed with grief,please take care everyone and stay safe!!!!
Massapequa Funeral Home
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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