Thomas Grasso
December 20, 1942 - December 10, 2020
Massapequa Funeral Home
Nancy Napoli
Lamarre Notargiacomo
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Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Sunday 12/13, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Sunday 12/13, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Due to the current New York State restrictions in place, the funeral home has a limited capacity of 33% for visitors.  Please be aware that if the family has reached visitor capacity, family & friends who wish to visit may be requested to wait until the chapel has space to accommodate more visitors.

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Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Sunday 12/13, 7:30 pm
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Calverton National Cemetery
210 Princeton Blvd.
Calverton, New York 11933
Monday 12/14
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Ivette Segarra-Steele left a message on January 11, 2021:
I wanted to pass on my deepest condolences to the Grasso family and friends. I personally did not know Tommy but I've heard wonderful things about him through one of Transit PD groups. Find comfort and keep hope in knowing that there is going to be a resurrection and you will have the opportunity to see Tommy again, and others whom you have lost in the past. 1Thessalonians reads: For if we have faith that Jesus died and rose again, so too God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in death through Jesus. Isaiah 33:24 reads: And no resident will say; "I am sick."
Ed and Lynn Rennar left a message on December 21, 2020:
Cannot express how much I miss my friend. We were such good buddies from grammar school on and I have such great memories. Gone too soon. Ginny you are in our prayers - God Bless Tommy.
Patrick and Virginia Rafferty left a message on December 18, 2020:
We were so sorry to learn of Tommy's passing. We pray you can all find some peace in knowing that he is now residing in Heaven with the Lord and also with all those he loved who left this Earth before him. May he rest in peace for eternity.
Gayle & Steve Andretta left a message on December 13, 2020:
Ginny, we were so shocked by the passing of Cousin Tommy. May your family be able to help bear the burden of grief now with you and share the many great memories you have of him throughout your time together. Our prayers and love are with you. 🙏
Richard & Maryann Comuniello left a message on December 13, 2020:
God Bless You Cousin Tommy and rest in peace in heaven. You are certainly going to be missed. With thoughts and prayers to the Grasso family we bid Cousin Tommy fare well. Love Richard & Maryann
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Carol Giannattasio left a message on December 13, 2020:
Deepest sympathy and condolences to Virginia and the Grasso family. Tom and I are thinking of you.
Anthony Lomanto left a message on December 13, 2020:
From the Executive Board and members of the NYC Retired Transit Police Officers Association, we offer our deepest condolences and sympathies to Virginia and the Grasso family. Tom was a Lifetime Member and we always enjoyed his company at our meetings. He will be missed by all his fellow retirees and pray that he Rest In Peace.
Nancy Napoli left a message on December 13, 2020:
Rest In Peace Mr.Grasso
Lamarre Notargiacomo left a message on December 13, 2020:
Dear Steven and family, Thomas is a strong name. I'm sure he was a strong man, judging by Steven's strength of character. May the God of all comfort bring you peace. Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort we ourselves are comforted of God. I Corinthians 1:3-9
Joann Ciraulo Icart left a message on December 12, 2020:
Steven and family We are so very sorry for your loss May he RIP The Icart Family
Barbara Derbabian left a message on December 12, 2020:
My sincere condolences to the Grasso Family on the loss of Tom..May he Rest in the loving arms of The Lord....
Mr. And Mrs. Christopher Tobin left a message on December 12, 2020:
Rest easy with the angels.
Sherri MacDonald left a message on December 12, 2020:
My deepest condolences to the entire family. I love you all.
Ken bynoe left a message on December 12, 2020:
I’m sorry.l loved that guy a great gentleman and and a great cop. Always willing to help a fellow officer. He made a positive impression on all who knew him and he will be missed by all.
Bob Valentino left a message on December 11, 2020:
Always enjoyed sitting down and talking to Tom & Al Farina at our association meetings. Tom always was and will be remembered as a real true gentleman. Condolences to his wife and family. Rest in Peace my friend.
Jim and Sabina Lafferty left a message on December 10, 2020:
We love and miss you Tom shooo”love Sabina and Jim
Massapequa Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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