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Dermott Joseph Clowe III

October 20, 1989 - December 15, 2020
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A private cremation is scheduled

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Maria Regina R.C. Church
3945 Jerusalem Ave.
Seaford, New York 11783
516-798-2415 | Map
Friday 12/18, 10:45 am

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Aunt Sue left a message on December 15, 2021:
Miss you Joe. Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Rose Marie and Aaugie Occhino left a message on January 1, 2021:
Dear Barbara and Dermott, as your neighbor across the street, my husband Augie and I were so deeply saddened by the loss of your Joseph. Our hearts ache for you and what you and your family are going through. There will not be a time I will leave or enter my home when I will not be thinking of you and Joseph. You raised an amazing son. Whenever I get in or out of my car, I will always have the fond memory of his smiling face greeting me in a most pleasant way, as he was doing the same, only a few feet away. May he Rest In Peace in heaven.
Veronica Glascoe left a message on December 28, 2020:
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Alonso Vega left a message on December 28, 2020:
I went to the same college as Dermott. Everytime I would stay late to work on homework or assignments in the computer lab the light was always on and I knew I’d have someone to keep me company. He was enthusiastic, full of passion. Always made an appearance when we were asked to help our professor on the weekends to set up for open-house in the art department but also a friend to joke around with when things weren’t so busy. It was a pleasure to know a guy like Dermott.
Peter and Lucy Ciccione left a message on December 24, 2020:
Joe was an extraordinarily kind and generous person who always helped those less fortunate. His big heart and personality are fine, rare qualities that we don't often see. The love and joy that Joe brought to those around him will remain with us forever. There are no amount of words to describe the sorrow that we feel from Joe's passing Take comfort and piece of mind knowing that Joe Loves you, is with you and is watching over you. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Peter and Lucy Ciccione
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cathy Murray left a message on December 23, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, Cathy Murray lit a candle
Krisanne left a message on December 20, 2020:
I will miss you forever Joe. We will never be the same without you. I didn’t say it enough, I love you & wish you were still here with us for me to tell you. Theres nothing I wouldn’t give to make this go away. You were the best brother & friend. I’ll always cherish our childhood memories & am grateful for all of the memories after. You were & always will be so special to me. My baby brother. The boys adore you and will miss you so much. They would have been so lucky to grow up with you in their corner. Joe brought so much happiness to our family & life will never be the same without him. Until we meet again ill hold the memories close & be forever grateful for the time we had with you.
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Suzette & Joe Liguori left a message on December 19, 2020:
We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you all. Hugs and love ?♥️♥️
Tim left a message on December 19, 2020:
I met Dermott in a 3D design course at Molloy college and we quickly became friends. His positive attitude, outlook on life, and smile radiated through the class. He was a presence that was felt from the moment he stepped in to any room. As an artist, Dermott wasn't afraid to experiment and push boundaries. He will always be remembered and missed. My love goes out to the Clowe family and to all who knew him.
The Cardile Family left a message on December 19, 2020:
So sorry to hear the devastating news about Joe. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tim Roda left a message on December 19, 2020:
Dermott was one of my students at Molloy College. He was a driven and dedicated young artist. His experience was always a valuable sounding board for others in the classroom. He had a strong work ethic, ability to problem solve with ease and a willingness to try new things. In the past for one of Dermott's applications to graduate school, I wrote: "Dermott has the potential to succeed to new levels in your program and in any arena he chooses. I have no doubt Dermott will be the most dependable and easygoing student in your graduate program." I am sorry for your loss. Dermott made a strong impression on everyone he crossed paths with. He will forever be remembered.
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Aunt Renay left a message on December 18, 2020:
Joe, from the day I met you, you were always smiling. You will always have a special place in my heart. You always had a beautiful smile, great big hugs and always a jokester. You always put a smile on my face. Thank you for being a part of our lives, we miss you. Love, Aunt Renay
Christopher and Natasha Schott left a message on December 18, 2020:
We are incredibly grateful for all the moments we got to share with Joe. Our deepest sympathy to all of his loved ones. May he rest in prosperity.
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Greg Lorenz left a message on December 18, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, Greg Lorenz lit a candle
Greg Lorenz left a message on December 18, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, Greg Lorenz lit a candle
Greg Lorenz left a message on December 18, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, Greg Lorenz lit a candle
Christopher Scheck left a message on December 18, 2020:
Our deepest and most sincere condolences to your family. Please know you are in our thoughts during this time. -Chris, Alana, Paxton, and Emmett
Shirl Tagliarino left a message on December 18, 2020:
My prayers go out to your family ..... I am at a loss for words ..... may Joe rest in gods heavenly care .... and may the good lord give your family during this difficult time??
Shirl Tagliarino left a message on December 18, 2020:
My prayers go out to your family ..... I am at a loss for words ..... may Joe rest in gods heavenly care .... and may the good lord give your family during this difficult time??
Shirl Tagliarino left a message on December 18, 2020:
My prayers go out to your family ..... I am at a loss for words ..... may Joe rest in gods heavenly care .... and may the good lord give your family during this difficult time??
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Shirl Tagliarino left a message on December 18, 2020:
My prayers go out to your family ..... I am at a loss for words ..... may Joe rest in gods heavenly care .... and may the good lord give your family during this difficult time??
Mary Iannaccone left a message on December 18, 2020:
My Dearest Pixie Joey Clowe, When I scroll through my many happy memories teaching at St. Bernard's School, my most humorous and laughable one is about you. You were just starting school and you wanted to get my attention to say hello, and you found the perfect solution. Whenever you passed me in the hall, or school yard you would pinch my back side with your little fingers, and with a pixie grin say,"Hello Mrs. Iannaccone". At first I thought this would be a one time occurrence and wouldn't happen again. Little did I know this was going to be a daily greeting for me, until called your mom. Poor Barbara your mom!! Your mom was so embarrassed, and she put an end to your way of saying hello to me. Thank you for a cherished memory of your sense of humor and beautiful smile. My deepest condolences to your family. Only with God and prayers will they find the strength to get through losing you. May you rest in peace in the arms of the Lord.
Judith Monico left a message on December 17, 2020:
R.I.P Joey Joe
Judith Monico left a message on December 17, 2020:
My heart goes out to my beautiful friend and her whole family. Since he was born Ive always called him My Joey Joe. I saw his face and fell in love with this kid. His smile would light up any room and that impish grin on his face could melt your heart. God has gained a talented, smart , kind, and special angel. May you forever rest in peace and know that you will never be forgotten and always loved by so many.
Shirley Williams Barnable left a message on December 17, 2020:
To the Clowe family, my heart breaks for your loss. I never met Joe, but I loved the time our family spent with Uncle Derm and Aunt Betty May and all out cousins in New York. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Scott McGinty left a message on December 17, 2020:
My sincere condolences to the Clowe family. In observance of Joe, I am reminded to how the Clowe family, and particularly Joe, blessed my childhood with an abundance joy, laughter, and love. I am beyond fortunate to have had Joe by my side while growing up. Every moment with Joe was an adventure occupied with endless laughter. These are memories that I will always cherish. Joe’s compassion and humor carried with him to adulthood and will continue through anyone who had the privilege to know him.
Danielle DiCostanzo and Richie Luxmore left a message on December 17, 2020:
My heart goes out to the entire Clowe family during this time. We absolutely love and adore you Taylor, and we are completely devastated for you. May his soul Rest In Peace. He will forever be in our prayers.
Danielle Cannistraci left a message on December 17, 2020:
Sending love, prayers and strength to The Clowe family. Barbara, Dermott, Krisanne and Taylor, you are all on our minds and in our prayers. There really are no words to make you guys feel any better, Joe, you will always be our Joey-Joe. We will always remember babysitting you guys, celebrating birthdays and seeing you and Krisanne as babies looking out the mail slot on 52nd street. R.I.P Joe. ?? You will forever be in our hearts.
Stacey Weir left a message on December 17, 2020:
Like Len Antinore said, Dermott was one of my favorite former student. What a great guy he was. Even when he wasn't in my class, I always let him stay in the graphics lab and do his work while I was teaching, so I got to know him well. In March of 2017, I volunteered at a comic book festival in a part of Manhattan that was a royal pain to get to, and on a horribly rainy and cold day besides. I had told Dermott about it because I knew he was a big lover of comics, but I didn't expect he would actually go. Then, on that rainy Saturday afternoon, I was sitting at the at the check-in desk taking people's entry fees and at the back of the line I spotted Dermott. A couple hours later he passed by again on his way out and happily flashed two big bags of loot he had bought from some of the artists. When we spoke that Monday we compared notes on which artists were our favorites and what we had bought from them. I'll always remember him fondly. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Greg, Lisa, Mason and Ava left a message on December 17, 2020:
Rest in peace, Joe Clowe.
Barbara Serena left a message on December 17, 2020:
My prayers are with you all....
Bobby nesci left a message on December 17, 2020:
Words can not express how much you’ve impacted my life, we grew up together and I looked up to you more than you may ever know, you’re always gonna be on my mind and I’ll miss you forever joe reasy easy Love Bobby
Wasif left a message on December 17, 2020:
I love you my brother. From my first friend in this country to becoming my best friend,you showed me around and you'll always be remembered. You were an amazing soul,with all those times we went to give away food to the deserving ones to all those road trips we had.You were a soul of immense talent and I'll never forget you.
Anne Lods left a message on December 17, 2020:
Words cannot express the sorrow. Please accept my condolences and prayers are being said for you all.
Stacey Conklin left a message on December 17, 2020:
My deepest sympathies to the Clowe family.
Rebecca left a message on December 17, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, Rebecca lit a candle
Michael Esposito left a message on December 17, 2020:
My heart goes out to the Clowe family. Please accept my condolences and prayers.
Nicole Cannistraci left a message on December 17, 2020:
My condolences to Dermott, Barbara, Krisanne & Taylor You are all in my thoughts and prayers dealing with this devastating loss. We are all heartbroken. My first little babysitting crew!! We love you. May you Rest In Peace Joe
Jordan Hoyda left a message on December 17, 2020:
i'm without words ?we spoke about a week ago, i can't believe you're gone..... you were a good person and friend. May you rest in peace. ?
Maggie Farina left a message on December 17, 2020:
There are no words.. We love you Joe. We are heartbroken. So many incredibly happy memories together. We will always cherish them ♡ you're with us forever. Every time I revisit Shohola Falls I know you will be right beside me. The Clowe Family, all of love is with you.
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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Marie Furnari left a message on December 17, 2020:
Our deepest and sincere sympathy to all the family. May the Baby Jesus bless and comfort all of you. Marie and Richard Furnari. I am Renay's mother cousin.
Kimberly Libourel left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dermott, Barbara, and Family....We send our deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I’m sure Grandma and Grandpa, your Mom and Dad, my Dad and Mom and all our family in heaven are holding him and watching over us. Love to you all, Kim, Jon, Colin, and Meghan
Hector E. Carvalho left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dermott! You were more than an amazing employee. You had a heart, you saw greatness and goodness in everyone, even when we could no see it in ourselves. I am honored to have worked with you. God took an artist too soon, D! Rest in Peace!
Leonard Antinori left a message on December 17, 2020:
What can I say about Dermott, one of my favorite former students at Molloy College. His enthusiasm towards life was infectious. It showed in many of his beautiful photographs and graphic designs. He was always ready and willing to help not only myself but the entire Art dept in any way possible. This could include everything from photography to moving heavy equipment from one part of the campus to another. He did not question the effort, but simply rolled up his sleeves and completed the job with enthusiasm. Thank you Dermott for the friendship, the support and the smile!
Pamela Kilka left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dear Dermott and Barbara, Our hearts are broken for the loss of your darling, loving, sweet son. We pray Our Lady will cover your whole family in her mantle of love, peace and courage. We will pray to St. Joseph to take care of your Joseph as he cared for Mary and Jesus. May God bless and protect the entire Clowe family. All our love, Aunt Pammy and Uncle Joe
Lynette Liverani left a message on December 17, 2020:
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Lynn, Ed, Joseph, Christopher, Nicholas and Steven. The Donnelly/Liverani family.
John Luxmore left a message on December 17, 2020:
Rest In Peace beloved son, brother, uncle, and friend please watch over us as you always have
Luxmore Family left a message on December 17, 2020:
Rest In Peace, always will be deeply missed. Look over us from the heavens. Our hearts are heavy without you here. We will always speak of you to keep you near.
Trisha O’Neill left a message on December 17, 2020:
Deepest condolences to your family (Dermott) Joseph. You will live on in my heart and memory forever. I will remember your talent as an artist and photographer, your gentleness, and your kindness. So many people benefitted from your giving nature. I will cherish and miss the special bond we had and the joy you gave me. Rest In Peace, dear Joseph. May God bless your family at this time =~}
Trisha O’Neill left a message on December 17, 2020:
Deepest condolences to your family, (Dermott) Joseph. You will live on in my heart and memory forever. I will remember your talent as an artist and photographer, your gentleness, and your kindness. So many benefitted from your giving nature. I will cherish and miss the special bond we had and the joy you gave me. Rest In Peace, dear Joseph.
Fred Bauer left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dermot will truly be missed. He was my employee however he was a friend. Keep smiling Dermot. You will be remembered as such a happy person. Love you brother!!
Julia McGinty left a message on December 17, 2020:
My deepest condolences to the entire family & anyone who had the pleasure of knowing Joseph. Such a talented young man who was taken from us too soon. Joe touched all of our lives in such a positive way. He will be missed greatly by us all. Heaven gained an angel.
Joe left a message on December 17, 2020:
I remember the day we met. It was all smiles. Always made me smile and we always had great laughs. Rest in peace brother. will always remember the droopy
Sue Bieli left a message on December 17, 2020:
Losing a child is the hardest of all, no grief is more real, no sadness is greater, nothing is more difficult to understand. Barbara, Dermott, your son's young life has passed from your sight, but not from your hearts. Joseph, so very special, touched many hearts, and those hearts will touch many more, so in that way Joseph will always remain a part of you, a part of everything. My deepest sympathy to you both, and to your daughters, and extended family. Remember, in a sky full of stars, there are always some that shine a little brighter. May Joe rest in peace and may the angels of grace and mercy surround him always. Love and prayers, Sue
Lynn Cama left a message on December 16, 2020:
Sweet Joe. I see the little boy with the pixie smile. Always making every one laugh. You were taken too soon. May you Rest In Peace in the arms of our Lord. For your family, may God and the Blessed Mother guide you all through this sorrowful time. ???
Sophia Menniti left a message on December 16, 2020:
Dermott was a great person, a great friend, and such a kind soul. He was gone too soon. Rest In Peace angel and my thoughts and condolences to his family and friends <3
Aunt Lizanne left a message on December 16, 2020:
My Dearest Joe-Joe, I will forever cherish every loving memory of you always. Your sense of humor, kindness and beautiful smile most of all. I Love You Dearly.... LeeLee
Jenn Nesci left a message on December 16, 2020:
Joe- I am heart broken that you’re not here with us. I will keep all the memories we had together with me forever. Your natural gift to light up a room, your fun and caring personality, your talent...I could list a million reasons why you will be irreplaceable. Love you, Rest In Peace ♥️
Eileen Guiry left a message on December 16, 2020:
My condolences and prayers on this loss. I pray for all of you???
Scott & Audrey left a message on December 16, 2020:
Joseph, you will forever be remembered for your random acts of kindness, and the smiles you brought to every room you entered. We are all better people for having known you because of the love that poured out of you for your family and those you cared about. You were genuine and one of a kind. Your light will forever shine bright. We will remember and love you forever. ?
Aunt Patty and family left a message on December 16, 2020:
Dear Sweet Joseph, The world has lost a beautiful, talented and caring young man. You were always a very special person with so much kindness in your heart. I will forever cherish the memories I have of you as a very sweet, funny young boy to the loving and extremely talented young man you became. Paying it forward was so important to you and we should all take a lesson from your life. Although we do not understand why this has happened and your loved ones are truly heartbroken, I pray to God you are resting in sweetest peace. You deserve that. We have lost a beautiful person here on earth but heaven has certainly gained a beautiful angel. Watch over your family. We love you.
Sal DiGiacomo left a message on December 16, 2020:
My wifes brother, a brother in law, an Uncle and a God father you filled many roles. You will be sadly missed by many. We will always keep you in our hearts. With much love may you rest in peace.
Pat, Janice, Danielle & Shannon left a message on December 16, 2020:
Joe always found a way to make everyone smile. The cousins can tell you, he was always making jokes - keeping them laughing. It came natural to him to bring happiness to others. Aside from the laughter - his sweet and kind personality made everyone feel loved. We will forever cherish the memories we were able to share with Joe. Some of the most memorable were when we would celebrate the 4th of July. The Clowe’s always had everyone over for a big party. Joe was always fun to be around - keeping the cousins entertained. Our hearts hurt for the Clowe Family. We pray for healing as we send all our love their way. Joe was loved by so many and he will forever bring smiles to our faces as we remember all the special memories we shared. Rest in peace Joe - we love you. Love, Pat, Janice, Danielle and Shannon
Anthony Clowe left a message on December 16, 2020:
I remember giving Joe his first buzz cut haircut with Barbara at Grandma Betty Mays. He was a sweet boy and I loved him very much. RIP my godson, Love you Always, Uncle Anthony
Dennis Panico left a message on December 16, 2020:
Rest In Peace my man, you were a great person thru and thru. You made the time at the sober house a blast and I’ll never forget your sense of humor. I’ll see you on the other side, love ya brother
Patricia Cunningham left a message on December 16, 2020:
So very sorry for your loss and you and your family will be in my prayers ??????
Cendali Family left a message on December 16, 2020:
Heaven has gained on angel ??
John left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Dermott Joseph Clowe III, John lit a candle
Aunt Linda + Family left a message on December 16, 2020:
We will have a forever sadness over your passing .. praying that you are at peace & you are with those we love and those who love you on your journey. You are and always have been the sweetest, kindest, gentlest soul. Until we meet again .. We love you Joe Clowe.
The Polito Family left a message on December 16, 2020:
Our hearts are broken. We can't believe you have been taken away from us so soon. We pray that God will give your Mother, Father, sisters and us all the strength to get through this darkest time of our lives. We'll always remember that smile and the hugs. Your memory will never die, we love you more than life.
Cendali Family left a message on December 16, 2020:
Joseph Our hearts are broken.We love you & miss you. You will never be forgotten. Our prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.???Xoxo
Aunt Sue and Uncle Al left a message on December 16, 2020:
Our dear sweet Joe - there are no words to say how much we will miss you. You will always with us in spirit - for that I am sure. Our hearts are broken and we pray you are in the arms of all our loved ones who have passed.
The Luxmore Family left a message on December 16, 2020:
Our deepest condolences to the Clowe family for the tragic loss of Joseph, a beloved brother, uncle and son who will be missed dearly. May he rest in peace and continue to watch over and protect his family and those close to his heart.
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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