James LaGrutta passed away surrounded by family on Tuesday, December 6th. He was born in New York, NY on March 23, 1937, the youngest of two children to John and Sue. He was preceded in death by his older brother, Gerald, and his parents. He met the love of his life, Vivian Dantes, in 1961Continue Reading
James LaGrutta passed away surrounded by family on Tuesday, December 6th. He was born in New York, NY on March 23, 1937, the youngest of two children to John and Sue. He was preceded in death by his older brother, Gerald, and his parents. He met the love of his life, Vivian Dantes, in 1961 at a dance at the Taft Hotel. They married in 1963 at St. Mary Gate of Heaven in Ozone Park and settled in Richmond Hill to raise two children, Jimmy and SueAnn, before moving to Massapequa. James loved being with family and was especially proud of his children and granddaughters. He had a love of life and making people laugh. He had a passion for golf and enjoyed all sports, as well as music and dancing. He is survived by his wife, Vivian, his son, Jimmy, daughter-in-law, Denise, daughter, SueAnn, son-in-law, Lou, and grandchildren Michelle and Chiara.
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Phil, Kelly, and Nicole
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Michele Barbusca
left a message on December 12, 2022:
Thoughts & Prayers to all his loved ones. Rest Peacefully James. With Deepest Sympathy, The Barbusca Family
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Anonymous
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Always in our hearts Lee, Tanya, Chris, Joey and Jack
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Isabel Thompson
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Frank & Jackie Siragusa
left a message on December 8, 2022:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
frank devenish
left a message on December 8, 2022:
Worked w/Jimmy many years on the Sanitation Dept. .He was a great partner and made even the lousiest days (snow, rain , heat etc.) bearable, even when i had to watch him practice his golf swing a (hundred times a day ) .... He always made me laugh... One of the good guys..... RIP Jim
Nicole Montemurro
left a message on December 8, 2022:
My sincere sympathy,
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Ed Dantes
left a message on December 7, 2022:
RIP Jim, You will be missed forever. I will never forget all the fun times we all had together. From bowling late at night, playing pinochle, skiing and that’s only a few. But the best was sitting all around after a Sunday dinner with everyone and just enjoying the company of family and friends. You always loved that but what you really loved was holding or walking with your granddaughters and singing to them. I met you when I was 10. You never stopped teaching me things from sports to politics or lending me your car to go out with Adele. God Bless.
Adele Dantes
left a message on December 7, 2022:
James was one of the most amazing man I know. So full of life, constantly on the go and never liked standing still. I will miss him so much and so will a lot of people. I know now he’s with the rest of the angels watching down on all of us. Til we meet again RIP JAMES
Daneen Leverock Gentilr
left a message on December 7, 2022:
My heart breaks for you all. I have SOOOOO many wonderful childhood memories that are all in my mind. He was a wonderful husband and father. Now the two Jimmys are up there together…. Like the good old days! Prayers for you all.. sending much ❤️
Domenica Galluccio
left a message on December 7, 2022:
My Dearest Jim,
I will miss you my brother-in-law. You were a wonderful part of our family, and always made everyone laugh and smile. And, thank you, for loving my sister and your family as much as you did. We all are proud to have had you in our lives...and memories.
Rest in peace Jim. Love, Dee (Domenica)
Dee Galluccio
left a message on December 7, 2022:
Uncle Jimmy, I'll always remember your great sense of humor and kind and caring way. Love you. Rest in Peace.
Shirley Theocharides
left a message on December 7, 2022:
Jim, I will miss you. You always put a smile on my face, made me laugh and provided me with wisdom and advice as if I was your own child.
Shirley Theocharides
left a message on December 7, 2022:
With loving memories of James LaGrutta. I'll never forget how you always made me laugh and how you made me feel welcome in your home and heart.
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Anonymous
left a message on December 7, 2022:
To an amazing father and role model. We love you always, The Slick Chicks - Angela, Carla, Noelle, Pam, Patti, Shirely , Susan & Tracey.
Full Heart was purchased for the family of James LaGrutta by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Helen Crowley
left a message on December 6, 2022:
Vivian and family I am so sorry for your loss. James was a very good man. He welcomed me and my husband to The Oaks with open arms when I moved here. I will be forever grateful for the good neighbor James was. RIP James and give John a hug for me. I will miss your smiling face.
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Phil, Kelly, and Nicole
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Michele Barbusca
left a message on December 12, 2022:
Thoughts & Prayers to all his loved ones. Rest Peacefully James. With Deepest Sympathy, The Barbusca Family
A memorial tree was planted in memory of James LaGrutta . Plant a Tree
Anonymous
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Always in our hearts Lee, Tanya, Chris, Joey and Jack
Written in the Stars was purchased for the family of James LaGrutta by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Isabel Thompson
left a message on December 9, 2022:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of James LaGrutta . Plant a Tree
Frank & Jackie Siragusa
left a message on December 8, 2022:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of James LaGrutta . Plant a Tree
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
frank devenish
left a message on December 8, 2022:
Worked w/Jimmy many years on the Sanitation Dept. .He was a great partner and made even the lousiest days (snow, rain , heat etc.) bearable, even when i had to watch him practice his golf swing a (hundred times a day ) .... He always made me laugh... One of the good guys..... RIP Jim
Nicole Montemurro
left a message on December 8, 2022:
My sincere sympathy,
A memorial tree was planted in memory of James LaGrutta . Plant a Tree
Ed Dantes
left a message on December 7, 2022:
RIP Jim, You will be missed forever. I will never forget all the fun times we all had together. From bowling late at night, playing pinochle, skiing and that’s only a few. But the best was sitting all around after a Sunday dinner with everyone and just enjoying the company of family and friends. You always loved that but what you really loved was holding or walking with your granddaughters and singing to them. I met you when I was 10. You never stopped teaching me things from sports to politics or lending me your car to go out with Adele. God Bless.
Adele Dantes
left a message on December 7, 2022:
James was one of the most amazing man I know. So full of life, constantly on the go and never liked standing still. I will miss him so much and so will a lot of people. I know now he’s with the rest of the angels watching down on all of us. Til we meet again RIP JAMES
Daneen Leverock Gentilr
left a message on December 7, 2022:
My heart breaks for you all. I have SOOOOO many wonderful childhood memories that are all in my mind. He was a wonderful husband and father. Now the two Jimmys are up there together…. Like the good old days! Prayers for you all.. sending much ❤️
Domenica Galluccio
left a message on December 7, 2022:
My Dearest Jim,
I will miss you my brother-in-law. You were a wonderful part of our family, and always made everyone laugh and smile. And, thank you, for loving my sister and your family as much as you did. We all are proud to have had you in our lives...and memories.
Rest in peace Jim. Love, Dee (Domenica)
Dee Galluccio
left a message on December 7, 2022:
Uncle Jimmy, I'll always remember your great sense of humor and kind and caring way. Love you. Rest in Peace.
Shirley Theocharides
left a message on December 7, 2022:
Jim, I will miss you. You always put a smile on my face, made me laugh and provided me with wisdom and advice as if I was your own child.
Shirley Theocharides
left a message on December 7, 2022:
With loving memories of James LaGrutta. I'll never forget how you always made me laugh and how you made me feel welcome in your home and heart.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of James LaGrutta . Plant a Tree
Anonymous
left a message on December 7, 2022:
To an amazing father and role model. We love you always, The Slick Chicks - Angela, Carla, Noelle, Pam, Patti, Shirely , Susan & Tracey.
Full Heart was purchased for the family of James LaGrutta by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Helen Crowley
left a message on December 6, 2022:
Vivian and family I am so sorry for your loss. James was a very good man. He welcomed me and my husband to The Oaks with open arms when I moved here. I will be forever grateful for the good neighbor James was. RIP James and give John a hug for me. I will miss your smiling face.
Massapequa Funeral Home
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