John J Reidy, husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend, actor, writer, producer, director, bird-feeder passed away on August 24th, 2022 at the age of 66. He is free of the limitations that his illnesses imposed, and is effortlessly sharing his earthly stories in heaven to anyone and everyone who will listen.

Though his life was never easy, he loved living. He wanted to experience everything and made every effort to do so.

John’s faith in others was unmatched and he wanted those around to reach their greatest potential. He believed in everyone. He provided unwavering support to his family and loved ones, and pushed those around him to pursue their biggest dreams, helping in any way he could. As he himself reached for the stars, his willingness to put himself out there inspired those around him. Nothing was impossible to John.

John could spin a tale like no other. He could tell one hell of a story (with 10 or 15 mini stories sprinkled in). A simple trip to the grocery store or the gym could inspire a lengthy recap. John found his own excitement in any situation. Those around John would open up to him quickly, as he would inquire about even the most intimate details of their lives. He could leave a 15-minute conversation with a complete stranger knowing that person’s whole life story. Then, he would rack his brain thinking of how he can help that person in any way he could. He just really cared about people.

John was a man of strength. He proved this with his over 40 years of sobriety. John had the courage to be vulnerable and admit to his own faults, using them to grow and become a better man. He was a power of example to friends and family. His many acts of service were greatly appreciated by all he touched, but he did not do this for reciprocity. Helping others and making those around him feel less alone warmed John’s heart and fulfilled him.

John would try anything with a “just jump in” attitude. With limited experience and resources, John wrote, produced, and directed three award winning films. He had the gift of turning an idea into reality without fear or hesitation. While some people are content with sitting around, John loved a spontaneous adventure. He enjoyed traveling the world, from Columbia, to Ireland, Israel, Portugal, Dominican Republic, Aruba, and all through the United States. On these trips, John was not a tourist. He would immerse himself in the culture and come out with a truly unique experience and a new outlook on life. His endless enthusiasm inspired those around him live more thrilling and exciting lives.

John went through a lot in life but did not let this get him down. He lost the use of his voice when his vocal cords were removed in 2012. Anyone else would let this defeat them, but John refused to do so. He found ways to use his disability to his advantage and let it become his super power. His ability to flourish in any environment regardless of circumstances was unparalleled and brought light to what would be otherwise dark times.

John was a true survivor and a legend. He was loved dearly by all that were lucky enough to know him and will be greatly missed by all.

In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made in honor of John to the International Association of Laryngectomees.

https://www.theial.com/donate

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