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Jordan B. Cafarella

October 8, 1991 - December 15, 2020
Visitation
Massapequa Funeral Home, South Chapel
4980 Merrick Road
Massapequa Park, NY 11762
516-882-8200 | Map
Friday 12/18, 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Due to the current New York State restrictions in place, the funeral home has a limited capacity of 33% for visitors.  Please be aware that if the family has reached visitor capacity, family & friends who wish to visit may be requested to wait until the chapel has space to accommodate more visitors.

Cemetery
St. Charles Cemetery
2015 Wellwood Ave
Farmingdale, NY 11735
(631) 249-8700 | Map
Saturday 12/19
Mass
St. Rose of Lima R.C. Church
2 Bayview Ave.
Massapequa, New York 11758
516-798-4992 | Map
Saturday 12/19, 10:15 am
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MO left a message on March 3, 2023:
We hadnt talked since 2019 and I randomly thought of you today. I googled because you were minimal social media for the time i knew you… and i was in shock. I am devastated for your family. Even though i hadn’t spoken to you for years you were always so smart, so driven and had a big heart and sense of humor. You were also the only guy ive met on long island that loved A Day to Remember so much more than I did, or at all. That was how we first bonded. I played ADTR for you for hours today. life is not fair but im glad my life had you in it. And im glad you got to live out your dream career and help people- for a short time. You spoke of such passion for mortuary science, you loved getting tattoos, so many things i remember flooding back to me today.Thank you for being in my life Jordan, i hope youre resting peacefully.- Kenz
Mandi left a message on August 2, 2021:
Jordan, i still think about you all the time. one of the truest friends i met in college. you checked up on me all the time for years. and you even visited me in Virginia. I love you buddy and can’t wait to see you again some day.
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Mandi left a message on August 2, 2021:
Jordan, i still think about you all the time. one of the truest friends i met in college. you checked up on me all the time for years. and you even visited me in Virginia. I love you buddy and can’t wait to see you again some day.
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Doreen Ward left a message on March 18, 2021:
I just heard about your son. I’m so sorry for your loss
Emily McGowan left a message on February 26, 2021:
Missing your smile especially today . I hope you are at peace and resting easy . Love you always - Emily
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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
jill left a message on December 21, 2020:
Ohh Jordan.. I’m not even sure how to put into words how broken hearted I am to know you’re no longer here. I knew from the second I met you that we were connected, and I think that’s why this hurts so badly. We went through so much together, we had a lot of ups and downs but somehow we always came back to each other, it tears me apart to know we’ll never come back to each other again. I’ll miss your smile and your contagious laugh. I’ll miss your pep talks and your jokes. You could always make me smile even when I didn’t want to. You were one of the funniest guys I’ve ever met. You really were one of a kind, and I’ll miss you everyday for the rest of my life. I’ll love you forever. My condolences to all your friends and your family I can’t imagine the pain you’re all feeling.. I am so so sorry for your tremendous loss. Rest peacefully my friend. <3
Audrey Dalto left a message on December 20, 2020:
Im praying for you Gayle and your family to have strength. May Jordan Rest in Paradise. Remember im not close by but only a phone call away. Love you girl?
Samantha left a message on December 20, 2020:
We were study buddies in high school and you were always very kind to me. May you rest in peace and never forgotten. My condolences to your family and loved ones.
Brenda Henning left a message on December 20, 2020:
My sincerest condolences to Gayle and Johnny and family. May you find comfort knowing he is in the hands of our Heavenly Father and at rest peacefully.
Casandra Valencia left a message on December 19, 2020:
I’m so sorry for your loss. Although I didn’t know Jordan long, he’s one of the those people who make you feel like a lifelong friend. I will miss you Jordan, cheers to the beers we will enjoy when we meet again. Love you my friend
Chris Caneda left a message on December 19, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Chris Caneda lit a candle
Greg Lorenz left a message on December 19, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Greg Lorenz lit a candle
Valerie Castoria left a message on December 18, 2020:
R.I.P ????
Nicole left a message on December 18, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Nicole lit a candle
marianne colucci left a message on December 18, 2020:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Words cannot express our sorrow.
marianne colucci left a message on December 18, 2020:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Words cannot express our sorrow.
marianne colucci left a message on December 18, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, marianne colucci lit a candle
Jennifer left a message on December 18, 2020:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I had an amazing time getting to know Jordan at TGI Fridays. He could make the whole room laugh. He will be deeply missed.
Tom Collins left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dear John and Family, Please accept my heart felt sorrow and compassion during this time of loss . I know The Lord will be with you all .
Chad saggio left a message on December 17, 2020:
Taken too soon, my deepest condolences. Jordan and my brother were very good friends. He is with our Father, and my brother in Heaven now. May Almighty God bless and keep you all close during this most difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bob Swanson left a message on December 17, 2020:
John at this time of sudden tragedy and loss you and your family have my most sincere thoughts and prayers! May Jordan Rest In Peace Forever?? Bob
Tom Moore left a message on December 17, 2020:
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your son, Jorden.
Jack Cambria left a message on December 17, 2020:
Dear John and Family, please accept my heartfelt condolences on your tragic loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time, and always. Jack Cambria ESU/HNT
Mike Laxton ESS9-ret left a message on December 17, 2020:
John Very sorry on the loss of your son My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Joseph Amato left a message on December 17, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Joseph Amato lit a candle
Eddie Reyes left a message on December 17, 2020:
May he rest in eternal peace. May the lord give the family strength during this time of mourning. John and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jane Magner left a message on December 17, 2020:
Robert and I are broken hearted to hear of the tragic loss of your beloved son Jordan. We would like to express our sincerest condolences. No one is truly lost if we keep their memories in our heart and mind. Jane Magner & Robert Notto
John Lambkin (ESS 1 ret.) left a message on December 17, 2020:
John to you and your family my deepest condolences on the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
John Lambkin (ESS 1 ret.) left a message on December 17, 2020:
John to you and your family my deepest condolences on the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Steve Mantell left a message on December 17, 2020:
So sorry for your loss Gayle and family, sending hugs to you all.
Andrew Carson left a message on December 17, 2020:
I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Vin DeSantis, ESS-6 retired left a message on December 17, 2020:
Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences.
Janice & Kenny Fee left a message on December 17, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Janice & Kenny Fee lit a candle
Eddie & Debbie Patterson left a message on December 17, 2020:
We are so very sorry to hear this news. Years ago Jordan and my son Connor played soccer together. There were times John would ask if we could drive Jordan home. I have to say we looked forward to those rides because not only was Jordan one of the most polite young guys but by far the funniest. Guaranteed he had me laughing at some point during the ride. RIP my brother and prayers to your family.
Cathyann Snyder left a message on December 17, 2020:
Sending Prayers & Hugs to Gayle (Mom) & the rest of the Cafarella Family. May Jordan Rest in Eternal Peace.
Mom left a message on December 17, 2020:
My baby is gone. Please send me signs. Rip my sweet baby boy.
Jessica Rush left a message on December 16, 2020:
Jordan was a huge part of most of my memories at WVU. He was a light in every room he entered, always positive and always had something to smile about. He was hard working and determined to make something of his life, and he did just that. He is loved and will be missed by so many. You all are in my prayers.
Rosemarie Coppola left a message on December 16, 2020:
I am so sorry fort our loss, my prayers to you and your family .
JOSEPH RIOTTA left a message on December 16, 2020:
I will always remember Jordan coming over to hang with my son, Joey. We used to talk about business, the future, school, you name it. His energy, passion for life and honesty made him one of a kind. Will always remember him.
Kendall Carney left a message on December 16, 2020:
Cafarella family- Your son Jordan was one of the most sensitive, kind, jubilant, hilarious, and expressive individuals this world had the pleasure of hosting. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Jordan is in every single good memory I have from my time at WVU and I will forever miss his irreplaceable friendship. Praying for your comfort and peace.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lauren Lombardi left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Lauren Lombardi lit a candle
Ari left a message on December 16, 2020:
My condolences to the family Ari Jordan’s barber ?
Jamie Cerverizzo left a message on December 16, 2020:
Jordan most definitely left a prominent mark on our world. He was here to prove that they only call on the absolute best to serve us on the Other Side. Jordan will now grace us all in a new, more powerful way. May his light shine down upon us forever and always.
Ginamarie Galluccio left a message on December 16, 2020:
My deepest condolences to the entire family & anyone who had the pleasure of knowing Jordan. He was one of a kind and an unforgettable personality. I'm glad to have had him as a friend for half of my life. Hope you're moshing up there J!!!
Sabrina Almlah left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Sabrina Almlah lit a candle
Rosemarie Coppola & Gary left a message on December 16, 2020:
We are so sorry for your loss. Jordan was such a nice and friendly neighbor. He always was so pleasant to talk to. May god watch over your family now as you all go through this traumatic loss. Our prayers are with you.
Rosemarie Coppola & Gary left a message on December 16, 2020:
I am so sorry for your loss, Jordan was always so nice and friendly, and it was a pleasure having him as our neighbor. We will miss his laugh and him walking around outside talking on his cell phone, and wearing shorts no matter the weather. God has taken him much too soon, and hope and pray for your family in this terrible loss in your life, that you can be guided through this tough time by the lord.
Brad Boyles left a message on December 16, 2020:
You touched more lives than you realize. ... look over your loved ones. Til we meet again ❤️
Kevin Arias left a message on December 16, 2020:
In memory of Jordan B. Cafarella, Kevin Arias lit a candle
Linda Mangano left a message on December 16, 2020:
With deepest sympathy for your loss. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. With Heartfelt Sympathy from your Realty Connect Family Valerie, Dayna, Linda and Laurie
Fern L Karhu left a message on December 16, 2020:
So sorry for the proud loss of Jordan. My deepest condolences to Gayle, John, Christian, Dean and the entire Cafarella / Garcia family. May his soul rest in peace. Love Fern Karhu
Trevor Stiefken left a message on December 16, 2020:
Couldn't believe the news when I heard it. Another soul taken from this world too soon. We just talked the other day about hardcore shows and tattoos and how you and I were going to catch up and go to a show once this pandemic ended. Miss the days we would run into each other downtown at school. I know we weren't fraternity brothers but to me you were a brother. May you rest in paradise, my dude. sending all my love and thoughts to your family, loved ones, and all of your friends. much love to you J Caf MONTANI SEMPER LIBERI.
Joe Manno left a message on December 16, 2020:
Oh Jordan , my friend when I Hurd the news I wish I was waking up from a bad dream you where such a good person I enjoyed your presence such a shame man I’m going too miss you brother gone way way too soon. A big part of my everyday life just the other day we where talking about this the other day what happeneds after you pass away and I really didn’t have a response but you where sure there wasn’t an after life and it was just lights out but buddy if there is or isn’t I’ll make your legacy live on R.I.P Jordan
Kristi Cooley left a message on December 15, 2020:
May you watch over us all and help light the path of those you love Jordan. Thinking of you and sending prayers
Prof. Gerald J. WIngster left a message on December 15, 2020:
Rest In Peace
condolence-image Massapequa Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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